My brother and sister-in-law kicked my father out of the house. My brother is still in the hospital with our parents but refuses to have his father by his side. I took my father to the hotel and flew off to help.
It is clear that my father is experiencing personality changes associated with early onset dementia. Here’s my perspective check: I think my brother is overreacting. I think it would go a long way for her niece to apologize to her father for being unfaithful. I suggested this to his brother to keep things running smoothly, but he rejected it as an option. The brothers supported their brother. I feel like I’m the only one to get my father’s help, and my family feels like it’s being torn apart over something insignificant. Could you or your readers offer some perspectives here?
Perspective check: How do your siblings and their wives protect their children and from what do they protect against sexist, abusive grandparents or violent grandparents with dementia? It does not matter.
I can go deep into the weeds for details, but then let’s say we’re both in the weeds for the issues beside the immediate point of health care for your parents, which is your business. you will be in I have no vote on my father staying at my brother’s house.
So here is my advice. Don’t comment on it, ask about it and try to fix it. Has completed.
Focus all your attention on what kind of care your parents need, who is willing to provide it, when and how, and the work of your team siblings. “Okay, Dad needs X and has to go to Y, and my brother is not an option.” candid facts. That’s where you live now.
This may seem strange. Because it ignores elephants and we make sense of the world by talking about things. But nothing worsens the situation faster than rushing in with a cannon that says ‘should’. I especially want an apology. Eggaz.
Do you see your niece’s parents teaching their teenager that it’s never okay for a man to assault her? I would teach a teenage girl to apologize. her fault A man punched her in the face. please consider.
A man who slaps his granddaughter when he’s already run out of business (meal plan made by his wife) is such a big deal. It doesn’t matter if he has dementia. He shouldn’t have to apologize as a child. Eavesdropping on your brother will only alienate him from you as well as your father.
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