There are some unspoken guidelines known as “bro codes” that all men must follow. Although not officially stated, these guidelines can help you deal with a variety of situations, from dating to friendship. Curious what these codes are?
1. Know your limits
![Lifestyle home portrait of an exhausted and exhausted young man lying in bed sick, miserable and still drunk, waking up suffering from headache and hangover after drinking alcohol at night party](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/slike-27.jpg)
Although there are no exact statistics, it is safe to say that most “party violations” begin with excessive drinking. As an adult male, it’s up to you to watch your alcohol intake. Basically, if you get too wasted, your remaining friends will have to clean up after you.
2. Be careful with your settings
![Several people are waiting awkwardly in an elevator, staring at each other.](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/elevatorawkward.jpg)
![Several people are waiting awkwardly in an elevator, staring at each other.](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/elevatorawkward.jpg)
Part of growing up is learning that some people aren’t all that great. Learning how to organize a gathering of friends means thinking about who gets along with whom and why, and where everyone can come together harmoniously. Failure to do so can result in potentially embarrassing situations.
3. Everyone needs to check in
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No one wants to over-text, but good friends always send their friends a quick message when something doesn’t feel right or they haven’t talked in a while. You never really know what someone is going through, so it’s good to keep open communication with your peers.
4. Brothers should push each other at the gym.
![personal trainer](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/personal-trainer-scaled-e1688344346130.jpg)
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In addition to the obvious physical benefits of working out, going to the gym is also great for producing endorphins and clearing your mind. To maintain a healthy mind and body, siblings should encourage each other to hit the weight room.
5. Brazzers before girlfriend
![man playing video games](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Men-Playing-Videogames-e1691294002642.jpg)
![man playing video games](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Men-Playing-Videogames-e1691294002642.jpg)
This is the most important principle of the Bro Code playbook. It could be the First Amendment of the implicit norm. Any girl will chase your brother. Women may not always be there for you, but your friends will be.
6. Correct each other
![man undergoing treatment](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/therapist-talking-with-a-man.jpg)
![man undergoing treatment](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/therapist-talking-with-a-man.jpg)
Optionally, this code involves throwing some meaning at each other rather than giving each other high fives. Many men consider it their duty to reproach their friends for their stupidity. Even if your tone is gentle, your message must be strong.
7. Inside jokes stay inside jokes.
![laughing men](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/Laughing-Men.jpg)
![laughing men](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/Laughing-Men.jpg)
Some of the rules are to maintain your friend’s dignity in public and keep your inside jokes to yourself. All that matters is that you keep those funny memories hidden from curious eyes.
8. The limits of teasing
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As long as everyone in the group thinks friendly banter is funny, it’s funny. It may not seem like a big deal, but it’s always inappropriate to bring up private and embarrassing information about your sibling.
9. Choose one for your team.
![people drinking beer](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/rsz_shutterstock_284519681.jpg)
![people drinking beer](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/rsz_shutterstock_284519681.jpg)
Men value the spirit of self-giving. If that’s not a big concern for you, take responsibility. But it may come at a high cost to your friend. However, like any rule, there are exceptions.
10. No Escapade
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Cheaters are not welcome in the circle. Cheating on your significant other is against the norm. Anyone who breaks this rule will be punished. It is an important aspect for each individual to respect their commitments and relationships with their significant others, both inside and outside of the circle.
11. Head nod cord
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![Diverse friendly male partner colleagues talking while walking down modern office hallway, young african american and caucasian businessmen discussing common project work meeting in company work space](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/Shutterstock_1494208253.jpg)
The strange nod of the head is the silent language of men only. This is where the difference in head tilt becomes apparent. Tilt your head down to show respect, and tilt your head up to show friendliness.
12. No interaction with girlfriends or ex-lovers
![Smiling handsome businessman holding elevator door for woman](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/slike-53-2.jpg)
![Smiling handsome businessman holding elevator door for woman](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/slike-53-2.jpg)
The male code says you shouldn’t date your friend’s date or ex-lover unless you’re looking for more than melodrama. Even if it’s not explicitly prohibited, following a friend or ex-lover is likely to get you in more trouble than a mosquito at a nudist beach, and will raise the eyebrows of your caucus.
13. Mission of wingman
![couple talking at the bar](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/Man-and-woman-flirting-.jpg)
![couple talking at the bar](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/Man-and-woman-flirting-.jpg)
If your friend is interested in someone, it is your duty to project attraction and help boost your ego. Do everything you can to bring out your friend’s inner Casanova while acting like he’s the funniest person in the room.
14. Wallet solidarity
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If your friend cancels an invitation to a social gathering because they can’t afford it, come up with a creative solution. True brothers stand together, even if it means taping their wallets for support, helping them out and never asking for their money back.
15. Borrow with respect.
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![construction tool set](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/tool-belt-.jpg)
It’s also fun to share with friends who have tools and cars. But you can’t control when and how you lend. If your friend declines, remember that his privacy and comfort are paramount. If given, please leave your device in better condition than when you found it.
16. Never hit below the belt.
![Businessman](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/businessmen-look-at-each-other-.jpg)
![Businessman](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/businessmen-look-at-each-other-.jpg)
Whether you take this literally or figuratively, never attack your brother lightly. This requires ending both physical violence and psychological aggression.
17. Honorary Uncles
![father and son playing video games, games, gamers, family](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/IMG_5637.jpeg)
![father and son playing video games, games, gamers, family](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/IMG_5637.jpeg)
When a child is born, siblings and honorary uncles also become part of the family. By surrounding yourself with good male role models from an early age, you can set a positive example for your children.
18. Shotgun Responsibility
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![car radio music](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/Car-Radio.jpg)
If you sit in the front, you are the co-pilot, not a passenger. You are responsible for choosing the music, using the GPS, and responding to calls and texts on the driver’s phone.
19. No talking in the urinals
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![toilet sign](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/restroom-sign.jpg)
Men are not allowed to use the urinal next to other men unless the restroom is full. At least he should empty one urinal to each other. Respect each other’s personal space and limits, even if you’re both men. There’s not even a conversation.
20. Pranks create bonds
![april fools prank](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/Pranking-a-friend.jpg)
![april fools prank](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/Pranking-a-friend.jpg)
Tricks are always fun, but it’s hard to know when to stop. One important regulation is to ensure that their health, economy, and other important things are not adversely affected. This principle allows you to enjoy pranks in a positive and respectful manner.
21. On the way home from the bar
![man driving drunk](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/Drunk-driver.jpg)
![man driving drunk](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/Drunk-driver.jpg)
When you return from a bar with a drunk friend, pay for the taxi and give them the receipt the next morning. safety first. This rule emphasizes the importance of looking out for each other’s health, especially when alcohol is involved.
22. A friend in need is really a friend.
![two friends talking](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/Helping-a-friend-.jpg)
![two friends talking](https://wealthofgeeks.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/Helping-a-friend-.jpg)
Be the ultimate friend and be there for you no matter what happens in life. That includes supporting you during the exciting times of a new relationship, and helping you get back on your feet after a divorce when you’re ready to date again. Being able to rely on someone is very valuable.