Promised relationships can be built or broken on the first date. Some people “click” right away, while others learn surprising details about dating and lose interest altogether. Recently, people have been discussing this on internet forums, revealing some of their most amazing first date experiences. These events show that you can never predict what will be revealed on a first date.
1 – Hide surname
One member said he realized that a date had hidden his last name on his credit card when he offered to pay. And they said, “I don’t want you to look me up on the internet.” It turns out they were involved in a pretty serious lawsuit after all.
2 – Looking for a babysitter
At one point, the members were picked up by a date 10 years older than them. She noticed that he had a child seat in her car, but he had not told her about it. Turns out the guy probably just wanted a free nanny after all.
3 – Political disagreements
The first woman said she dislikes men who brag about their drug use without prompting. While she appreciates their honesty and agrees that it is beneficial to know it early on, she wonders what kind of impressions they put off to attract such people. I couldn’t help but think. Either way, she was content to avoid pursuing a relationship with an active stimulant user.
4 – rude and disrespectful
One woman said she corrected herself when she insisted she wanted fried yams on a first date. Instead of letting her order what she wanted, he preached to her to choose more confidently and reliably. This woman quickly realized that she was done dating at that point, even if it wasn’t.
5 – Anti-Science Conspiracy Theorists
One woman found that her girlfriend didn’t believe in medicine and thought hospitals were just mass crematoriums. She also believed that doctors had no expertise and that her medication was just a placebo. This was just one of the many bizarre opinions he expressed, but her revelation was enough to make her decide never to see him again.
6 – No empathy
One found that her date, who was studying at Yale Medical School to become a medical oncologist, was not interested in showing empathy when making a cancer diagnosis for a patient. Instead, he just found it amusing to blurt it out. He also complained about the mandatory bedside etiquette course, much to the shock and horror of his date. Since then, she never wanted to see him again.
7 – Two children and a vasectomy
One woman dated a man 10 years her senior and had been texting back and forth for about a week. When he picked her up, she was surprised to see her two child seats in the back seat. He revealed that he has two children with two different ex-husbands and recently had a vasectomy because he “didn’t want to pay more child support.”
The woman was upset because he never mentioned his children when texting. He spent the night in his apartment and insisted on seeing his children the next day. She immediately declined and left.
8 – Best Friend in Prison
Someone discovers on a first date that their partner’s best friend hit her best friend with a car and is in jail for it. Surprisingly, the man had noticed this before, but he didn’t think it necessary to mention it. When she found out about it during her date and left the restaurant, her reaction angered him.
9 – Aggressive Behavior
Another user said she met a man who seemed nice at first. However, as the night wore on, his demeanor changed to aggression and confrontation with strangers. The man would sometimes yell at people he bumped into and get into arguments with strangers. Shocked and alarmed by his attitude, the woman decides to end the date early.
10 – A History of Domestic Violence
A woman was dating a man who had served time in prison for domestic violence. He blames the victim alone, blaming her for everything. This revelation was enough for the woman to immediately block him and end the date quickly. She expressed her incredulity that someone could take such a hurtful and disturbing view.
11 – Racist Beliefs
One intrepid user describes an unbelievable incident that saw a seemingly normal person fall into a horrifying situation and his partner proved to be a white supremacist. Despite being a man of color himself, the man lectured all night about how white people were superior to all other races. Obviously, he was just asking for a date, but due to his bad strategy, she never spoke to him again.
12 – Reenactment of the Revolutionary War
Bumble users tell of encounters with police. They were attracted to his tall, dark and handsome appearance and chatted for days before their first date. Users were impressed with him and thought he looked cool and normal until he revealed that he was obsessed with reenacting the Revolutionary War and often wore kilts on and off the battlefield.
13 – Not allowed to see children
A woman found herself matching a man on an online dating site. The user suspected that the man had used someone else’s photo in her profile, but she still chose to give it a try and agreed to meet for lunch. During the date, she revealed, the man wasn’t allowed to see the children often except when visiting her mother.
The news surprised the woman, as the man had never spoken about this before and seemed disconnected from the lives of his children. To her annoyance, she called the man “POS,” an abbreviation for the derogatory term.
14 – Awkward Movie Moments
Imagine a cinematic outing with an attractive man full of anticipation and excitement. but please wait a moment. Things got awkward when the man bent down and said the movie reminded him of how his father used to beat him when he was a kid. The user wasn’t sure if he was joking, but the rest of the date ended up being awkward.
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